Is marriage defined by society?
Thursday, January 25th, 2007Hi. If you are married then you can probably answer this question or attempt to.
Do you believe that Marriage enhances values and makes a relationship stronger? If thats the case then why are there so many divorces in the world..
I dont believe that a piece of paper enhances a relationship personally. A strong relationship isnt based on signed papers. And what do these papers give us.. Perhaps a greater sense of security.. Security that they are unlikely to walk away.. As this piece of paper means that your partner will now face a big legal battle if (he or she) for any reason wanted to walk away from this relationship in the future. Solicitors will be involved and hundreds of pounds will be lost in the legal wrangle.
Human beings werent designed to be married. If you love someone then the bond will be there whether you marry someone or not.
Marriage is thrust upon us as a requirement by society. Its all about the sheep following the crowd.
Today weddings cost in the region of £10000 plus so why not invest this in property or a new home instead. If you have to get married use a registry office. It makes sense in some respects that your partner will automatically receive your assets if you were ever to drop dead. But then a legal document would also cover this.
But then again ladies do dream of that one day in their life where they get to wear a white dress. Is this another marketing gimmick like christmas to generate income for the church and retail stores, catering companies?
My heads spinning from monitor strain.. Any comments ladies and gentleman?